My Dearest Zoë Monroe Ross,
Happy 10th birthday, my love! As you step into this beautiful new decade of your life, I want to remind you of some truths that I hope you carry with you always.
You are worthy
Zoë, you are worthy. Worthy of love, joy, abundance, and of every dream that lights up your heart. There is nothing in this world too big, too bold, or too beautiful for you to claim as your own. You have been wonderfully created by God, who has equipped you with everything you need to live the extraordinary life you dream of. Always remember: you are enough—just as you are.
You are bold, brilliant, beautiful, and powerful
Zoë, the world has often feared women like you—women who are strong, who know their worth, who shine unapologetically, and who dare to dream beyond limits. Don’t let that discourage you. When the world tries to dim your light, know this: it is because your brilliance is blinding, your strength is unshakable, and your power is undeniable.
Never shrink yourself to make others comfortable. Stand tall, because you stand on the shoulders of giants. Your ancestors, your family, and the generations of bold, brilliant Black women who came before you have paved the way for you to walk in confidence, with your head held high. Their resilience, courage, and wisdom flow through your veins. Whenever you feel uncertain, whenever the world feels heavy, tap into the power of your ancestry. It is a wellspring of strength and courage, always available to you.
You are powerful
Zoë, you are powerful beyond measure. That power lives within you—your strength, your kindness, your brilliant mind, and your generous spirit. Trust your intuition, for it is your God-given guide. It will lead you to the places you’re meant to be, the people you’re meant to love, and the purpose you’re meant to fulfill. Listen to it, and trust yourself.
Be kind, Zoë. To yourself and to others. Kindness is one of the most beautiful ways to show strength. Be forgiving. Forgiveness is a gift you give not just to others, but to your own heart—it keeps your spirit light and your path clear.
Know that God wants you to live in joy, love, and abundance, always. This life isn’t just about striving; it’s about thriving. It’s about waking up each day with a heart full of gratitude, a soul full of dreams, and a spirit full of audacity—the audacity to try, to believe, and to keep going no matter what.
Zoë, I want you to always know that I am here. As your mother, I will fiercely protect you, love you deeply, support you endlessly, and cheer for you through every triumph and every challenge. I am your safe place, your biggest fan, and your constant reminder of who you are and what you can do. When the world tries to make you forget, I will always be here to remind you: You are powerful, you are worthy, and you can do anything.
Sweet girl, God has already placed everything you need inside you. Believe it. Lean into that truth. And go after your dreams with boldness and joy, knowing that I will always be right by your side, loving you, and believing in you every step of the way.
You are my heart, my pride, and my joy. Happy birthday, my precious Zoë. May this year and every year to come be filled with laughter, light, and love.
Forever and always,
Mom